Have you watched the Korean movie "My Sassy Girl" before? No? Good! Don't even bother. It was pure idiocy.
The story's about a guy who meets a drunken girl one night. He ends up taking care of her that night. The thing is, she later puts him through all sorts of nonsense and yet he sticks around.
Examples:
1) She demanded that he meet her. He did, they went to a cafe, she asked him to order their drinks and yet when he did, she scolded him for his choice and proceeded to order for them. And she made him pay for it.
2) She said that there was no way it could work out between them, yet when another guy asked him if they were a couple and he said no, she got mad at him.
3) She complained that her high-heels were hurting her feet, and wanted them to exchange shoes. The guy readily agreed to give her his shoes, but said that he would walk barefeet and carry her heels. At this, she sulked and walked away. So he put on her high-heels. And as if that wasn't enough, she made him run after her in those heels!
How ridiculous and unreasonably demanding can she get? I don't understand girls like that, who think that making fools out of their boyfriends is some kind of "proof" of love.
I think that she's not even ready for a relationship. The main reason she "loves" that guy is because he makes her feel complete/secure.
I've witnessed relationships like this, and they don't end up pretty. No human being can ever "heal" you completely, and if you're expecting your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse to give you what you lack, it's a disaster because he/she is most likely looking to you to give them something they lack as well.
Human beings just aren't meant to be healed/fulfilled solely by other human beings.
But I guess that guy kinda deserved everything he got: he fell in love with the way she looked.
Ah, woe! The God-ordained order of things are being overturned!
The story's about a guy who meets a drunken girl one night. He ends up taking care of her that night. The thing is, she later puts him through all sorts of nonsense and yet he sticks around.
Examples:
1) She demanded that he meet her. He did, they went to a cafe, she asked him to order their drinks and yet when he did, she scolded him for his choice and proceeded to order for them. And she made him pay for it.
2) She said that there was no way it could work out between them, yet when another guy asked him if they were a couple and he said no, she got mad at him.
3) She complained that her high-heels were hurting her feet, and wanted them to exchange shoes. The guy readily agreed to give her his shoes, but said that he would walk barefeet and carry her heels. At this, she sulked and walked away. So he put on her high-heels. And as if that wasn't enough, she made him run after her in those heels!
How ridiculous and unreasonably demanding can she get? I don't understand girls like that, who think that making fools out of their boyfriends is some kind of "proof" of love.
I think that she's not even ready for a relationship. The main reason she "loves" that guy is because he makes her feel complete/secure.
I've witnessed relationships like this, and they don't end up pretty. No human being can ever "heal" you completely, and if you're expecting your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse to give you what you lack, it's a disaster because he/she is most likely looking to you to give them something they lack as well.
Human beings just aren't meant to be healed/fulfilled solely by other human beings.
But I guess that guy kinda deserved everything he got: he fell in love with the way she looked.
Ah, woe! The God-ordained order of things are being overturned!
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